How Many Times Do I Have to Tell You: Now Is Not the Time

Introduction

Have you ever told your kids, “Now is not the time”? As parents, we often find ourselves in situations where we must explain the importance of timing to our children. Whether it’s a kid wanting a cupcake for breakfast or asking to play when we’re in the middle of a critical task, understanding the appropriateness of timing is a lifelong skill we must teach them. But what if these same lessons hold deeper meanings for us adults, too?

Understanding Timing

Once, when we had company, one of our kids recounted our recent bout of the stomach flu. Cringe-worthy, right? Yet, it perfectly illustrates why timing matters and why understanding appropriate moments for certain topics is crucial. This is not just a random parenting whim but a foundational life lesson.

Kids are often blissfully unaware of the world around them and the timing required for certain actions. Asking for a treat at breakfast, showing a new hobby while a parent is preoccupied, or initiating a serious conversation in the middle of a hectic day all demonstrate this lack of awareness. It’s our role as parents to educate them.

More serious still are moments when questions and discussions are deeply inappropriate or untimely, requiring us to teach our kids about the nuances of social interactions.

Biblical Lessons on Timing

The importance of timing isn’t just a secular idea; it has deep roots in biblical teachings. A study of scripture reveals numerous instances where time is significant: “In the fullness of time,” “It came to pass,” and more. These phrases highlight that timing in God’s plan is never random.

God’s Perfect Timing

Sometimes, we fervently pray and ask God for something, feeling frustrated when those prayers seem unanswered. It’s easy to think that perhaps God isn’t listening, but maybe it’s simply a matter of timing. It may not be that God is saying no; He may be saying, “Now is not the time.”

Examples from Scripture

Consider Abraham and Sarah waiting 25 years for a son, even after God promises them one. Or the Israelites in Exodus, crying out for a deliverer for 400 years before Moses arrives. In both cases, timing played a crucial role in the fulfillment of God’s promises.

And then there’s the moving story of Lazarus. When Mary and Martha inform Jesus, “The one whom you love is ill,” Jesus doesn’t rush to heal him. Instead, He waits, knowing that the eventual resurrection would be an even greater demonstration of His power and glory.

What It Means for Us

In our lives, too, God may not be saying no; He might just be saying, “Not yet. Trust in My timing.” This trust can transform our prayer lives, making us more patient and understanding.